tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9073307022730595940.post403315594508090146..comments2024-01-08T14:24:09.348-05:00Comments on Life; Paralyzed: Disappointing Myself & Facing Harsh RealitiesChrissyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00069146517819619339noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9073307022730595940.post-11971932924374585212011-01-26T18:30:42.868-05:002011-01-26T18:30:42.868-05:00Thanks for the feedback! Since I've posted my ...Thanks for the feedback! Since I've posted my blog on several sites, I thought I'd share the links to all of the sources. This way, everyone reading & sharing, can see the full dialogue (if they're interested). 1http://lifeparalyzed.blogspot.com/2011/01/disappointing-myself-facing-harsh.html<br />2- http://www.spinalcordinjury-paralysis.org/tskushi21/blog<br />3- http://sci.rutgers.edu/forum/showthread.php?p=1314763#post1314763Chrissyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00069146517819619339noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9073307022730595940.post-16940841416614086072011-01-26T11:49:12.735-05:002011-01-26T11:49:12.735-05:00chrissy, i believe all that you said about girls f...chrissy, i believe all that you said about girls falling in love with the fantasy of 'married with children' and that driving them into relationships with guys that aren't right for them is right on!<br /><br />excellent insight. i'd like to use that in a book someday.<br /><br />it's good to bring these issues to the surface and not keep them buried. wish i could give you some hope, some meaning, but i'm afraid that's something you're going to have to find on your own. <br /><br />i do know this. paralysis does make you keenly aware that you are alone in the world with your suffering. you can have friends, family & a significant other, but they will never get what it is to live a quadriplegic's life.Wheelzhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14149467856105207678noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9073307022730595940.post-22595509977381777342011-01-24T19:23:43.672-05:002011-01-24T19:23:43.672-05:00Aww...Kiki. You're the last person that needs ...Aww...Kiki. You're the last person that needs to apologize. I feel bad for even feeling the way I do. The baby is a blessing. You deserve all the happiness in the world. Please don't let what I'm going through get you down. My sadness is my problem to deal with. Thank you for understanding my need to express myself. I love you <3Chrissyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00069146517819619339noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9073307022730595940.post-16937113299945621732011-01-24T03:27:57.498-05:002011-01-24T03:27:57.498-05:00I'm sorry my pregnancy and everything has been...I'm sorry my pregnancy and everything has been rough on you emotionally. I knew it would given how badly you wish you could have a child of your own. I wish I could reverse your injury so you could be able to experience everything you want to. It hurts me knowing how much pain things like this cause you. I know you're happy to have Kaylin in your life and that you're happy for Adam and I but I also know it doesn't make this easy.<br /><br />I may have no clue what its like to be in your situation as a whole but I do know the feelings you have towards pregnancy. Even though I got pregnant and now have my beautiful daughter it doesn't change my feelings towards my body and how I felt towards other people. I can't have a period on my own let alone a baby. I hate that a doctor (which took 2 years) had to give me my baby because I just couldn't do it on my own (well, with Adam's help lol). During my infertility treatments I was thrilled for my friends but hated that I couldn't have what they had. I was extremely jealous and hated myself for it. I completely get why you feel the way you do.<br /><br />Your situation is obviously much more painful and stressful. I wish things were different for you so you wouldn't have to feel the way you do. I'm sorry. I really didn't want to cause you pain through all this. I love you.KSnyder06https://www.blogger.com/profile/13563287713172269483noreply@blogger.com